Just a single day for Father
Yesterday,18th June, the world celebrates it as father's day.
A day when we wish our father for his happiness. It is a good thing but something is wrong, we are wishing our father for his happiness for just one day, I mean is it fair that the person who sacrificed his dreams and happiness for his kids dreams and happiness for lifetime deserves only one day’s happiness and that too on social media.
Are all of you gone so blind that you have developed a culture in which everything that we relate ourself to is only found in an unreal world. Even our parents, for god's sake at least open your eyes, your parents are not on social media they are present beside us, with us and behind us every time and every moment. We may feel detached to them but they are attached forever with us. Come to the reality guys. Even if you wish him a happy father's day or you tell the whole world that you love your father, would that be enough to let your father know that you love him. I can bet no he won't. Even if he gets to know, he won't be able to feel the real emotion of yours for him. Then why not say it to him personally.
What has happened to you all. All of you can use emoticons on social media to show your feeling, then why not you can show you real emotion through your real face. Is it just a tool for selfie or to make funny memes and pouts and all that stuff. Why are you so much obsessed with the social media that you are unable to see and feel the real emotions of your loved ones.
No, I am not against social medias but I am against the feeling of ignorance, the feeling of detachment, the coldness in expression which they experience when you are connected to thousands of unknown person in front of the known ones. The one who are your real blood relations.
What has made you so blind that you can't see their tears for you when you are busy solving someone's life issue in social media. Why is it so that the people who cares us the most are mostly ignored by the us. Why we likes and share millions of life lessons but fail to relate ourselves to it.
The father who discarded his dreams, his happiness, his interest, his priority just to ensure that you can live your life according to your dream, whatever gives you happiness is within your reach, whichever field interests you your father struggles to get you towards it, even he knows that your priority is not his happiness still his priority is your happiness. You can see "that" but just as a subject to post.
Right, showing how insensible you are, post your father's struggles, sacrifices and wait to how much likes and comments you receive on it. It is just worth it, only. And after few months the post is forgotten until the social media reminds you of it after a year.
Guys ! Seriously, I don't know what is going on your mind or what your perception is about our parents feelings and emotions but I strongly believe and trust that he is much more worth of it.
I am about a 1000 km away from my parents. My father himself is on social media but he rarely uses it because he is busy for me. He did not get time to use it. Still it is his daily routine to call me once a day to know how I am. Our talks are just brief but full of all those feelings one is blindly seeking on social media. Then you tell me, Should I wish him on social media where he won't be able to know how I feel for him or just call him personally and tell him how I feel for him. It is not just about social media, neither it is about us, and even it is not about anything more precious. It is just about our father, whose happiness we have confined to a single day and just showoff ourselves by posting "I love my father" or "Happy Father's Day".
It is about father and child. Our father and us. "What we feel for our father only a father can truly understand. And what he feels for us ......."
Guys if you really love him, tell him not the world. Your feeling can only be understood by your blood relations and others can only comment and like on it nothing else.
A day when we wish our father for his happiness. It is a good thing but something is wrong, we are wishing our father for his happiness for just one day, I mean is it fair that the person who sacrificed his dreams and happiness for his kids dreams and happiness for lifetime deserves only one day’s happiness and that too on social media.
Are all of you gone so blind that you have developed a culture in which everything that we relate ourself to is only found in an unreal world. Even our parents, for god's sake at least open your eyes, your parents are not on social media they are present beside us, with us and behind us every time and every moment. We may feel detached to them but they are attached forever with us. Come to the reality guys. Even if you wish him a happy father's day or you tell the whole world that you love your father, would that be enough to let your father know that you love him. I can bet no he won't. Even if he gets to know, he won't be able to feel the real emotion of yours for him. Then why not say it to him personally.
What has happened to you all. All of you can use emoticons on social media to show your feeling, then why not you can show you real emotion through your real face. Is it just a tool for selfie or to make funny memes and pouts and all that stuff. Why are you so much obsessed with the social media that you are unable to see and feel the real emotions of your loved ones.
No, I am not against social medias but I am against the feeling of ignorance, the feeling of detachment, the coldness in expression which they experience when you are connected to thousands of unknown person in front of the known ones. The one who are your real blood relations.
What has made you so blind that you can't see their tears for you when you are busy solving someone's life issue in social media. Why is it so that the people who cares us the most are mostly ignored by the us. Why we likes and share millions of life lessons but fail to relate ourselves to it.
The father who discarded his dreams, his happiness, his interest, his priority just to ensure that you can live your life according to your dream, whatever gives you happiness is within your reach, whichever field interests you your father struggles to get you towards it, even he knows that your priority is not his happiness still his priority is your happiness. You can see "that" but just as a subject to post.
Right, showing how insensible you are, post your father's struggles, sacrifices and wait to how much likes and comments you receive on it. It is just worth it, only. And after few months the post is forgotten until the social media reminds you of it after a year.
Guys ! Seriously, I don't know what is going on your mind or what your perception is about our parents feelings and emotions but I strongly believe and trust that he is much more worth of it.
I am about a 1000 km away from my parents. My father himself is on social media but he rarely uses it because he is busy for me. He did not get time to use it. Still it is his daily routine to call me once a day to know how I am. Our talks are just brief but full of all those feelings one is blindly seeking on social media. Then you tell me, Should I wish him on social media where he won't be able to know how I feel for him or just call him personally and tell him how I feel for him. It is not just about social media, neither it is about us, and even it is not about anything more precious. It is just about our father, whose happiness we have confined to a single day and just showoff ourselves by posting "I love my father" or "Happy Father's Day".
It is about father and child. Our father and us. "What we feel for our father only a father can truly understand. And what he feels for us ......."
Guys if you really love him, tell him not the world. Your feeling can only be understood by your blood relations and others can only comment and like on it nothing else.
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