The Game of Emotions
Our history has witnessed many events. Events showing the power of relationships and emotions. From love to war, from inferior to superior, and from the beginning to the end. It is something that has attracted a large number of community towards it. A painter, a poet, an artist, etc. almost everyone has accepted its divinity. The emotion that can either destruct or construct a culture.
Today I am going to tell you about how emotions can be beneficial or disastrous to a certain type of persons. Everybody has emotions, be it towards someone or something or some activity. And it is our emotions only, that determines how we represent our self toward our society.
There is a guy who was excellent rival of mine in classes. He had capability that he made me do hard labor towards studies, and I was pretty engaged in competing with him. My emotions were totally competitive towards him. Then we were in 3rd semester, which was the time for lateral entry students to join us in our B.Tech course. And there came total of nine students among which five of them were girls. Obviously for a guy, every girl seems to be attractive. But there was a girl who attracted a little more. It wasn't her femininity or nature that attracted, but it was her way with the guys that gained her a lot fame among the guys. Even my rival wasn't exempted from her charm. And why should I lie, me too was one of them. But something happened, something that showed that I must back off my steps, and I did. My rival failed to see through and got a bit too attached to her. I am still not sure whether they were in any relationship or not. But the consequences compels everyone to frame the theory of their relationship. And finally they were separated within a semester. Now he is no longer a rival of mine, as he is unable to pace up his mind with the present scenario and fails to compete effectively. And his mental instability is now posing a threat to my healthy competition environment. In fact it's already over.He made himself too much emotionally attached to someone whom he barely known and now is in ruin of his career.
Not only this I have one more to tell. An another buddy, was in a relationship since 2nd semester, had enjoyed a lot and was super happy. He was also a bright student. And he too was emotionally attached to his love. But there was a difference, he was aware of the truth and now in the 6th semester, the girl dumped him. And as I said he knew the truth, he accepted it, and faced it all. Not only this, he utilized the free time which would upset him to learn new skills. He accepted the reality, moved on and learnt to stabilize his emotions.
These two guys had their first love experience and were treated similarly but what made them different is that the way how they reacted to the emotional adversity. When one was motivated from it while the other was demotivated from it.
Moreover there are certain situations when we are emotionally agitated to a limit where we are bound to take certain actions that either goes in favor or against the healthy social acceptance. Hence Emotion is a game , play it wise and finish the task.
There are much more to say but even though life is incredible it has certain limits. Enjoy your life guys, and always be positive.
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