Positive and Negative Psychological Effects
We all have been through many types of beings with alot of variation in their personality types, and also there are the one who are particularly inclined towards seeing the negative side of the circumstances. Its not that they like it but they are far more magnetised towards foreseeing the negatives sides and they can't help it.
Although, negativity is necessary but to much of it can affect the psychological condition of a sound mind and ultimately the outcome of the events.
To understand the characteristic of a mind under the influence of negative or positive thinking. Lets consider our personality as an 'atom', which is comprised of positive protons,negative electrons and the neutral neutrons. An atom is incomplete without any one of them but a slight imbalance can make it unstable. Still there is difference between positive and negative.
A human mind works just the same, positive thoughts, negative thoughts and the neutral thoughts. But the mental instability is not easy to identify but thanks to science we can predict it.
For an atom, if there is imbalance in positive protons, the compensation is done by the negative electrons to make the atoms stable. On the other hand, if the electrons gets imballanced, the compenstaion is still done by the electrons themselves for stability of atom. But when it comes to the neutrons, both the electrons and protons are equally bound to compensate for the atoms stability.
Our mind works similarly, considering if the positive thoughts gets imballance, negative thoughts tries to ballance it. And if the negative thoughts gets a hunch, negative thoughts only tries to compensate for it. While, as far as our neutral thoughts are concerned, majority of human beings doesn't think about the neutral thoughts but it doesn't mean that it lacks its existance. As a matter of fact, the more neutral thought you can keep the more spiritual you grow. It is a different topic though.
We all have seen ir heard about the persons of all these three characteristic types, just didn't bothered to understand it or characterise it. But it still makes the difference.
In my college days, there was a guy in our group who was particulaly bound to see the most negative outcone of the actions or the events that are about to take place. I personally wasn't fond of him, and majority of time tried to avoid confrontation with him. Because he although unknowingly, was compelled to show me the negative outcomes of the things which I was about to do. And those things ranged from, watching movies, trying out a new restaurant, new dish, openion about girlfriend, life openions, decisions, and many more.Although seeing the drawbacks, in general, people try to prepare backups but these intellects see the flaws in the backups too,so not even worth trying.It was like, without even trying to act, I was compelled to accept that things won't work out as expected. He was truly the best example of the negativity in characteristics, till date. And I have seen the difference, under his influence and out of his influence. And it was obvious that, without his influence, I learnt and achieved much more as compared to vice-versa. His thought processes were like drawbacks of any idea but it was interesting to study his psychology and the influences it incurred. These people have literally weak personality, they lack confidances, are emotionally weak, avoid taking any risks in life, and these people creates a virtual justification for their activities. Thus their success ratio is below average, although they are not total failure, but they compltely avoid the risky path of life. And thus their life success ratio lise below average. These people are far behind their spiritual enlightment. It also has been seen that some people attain these kind of characteristics in their life in their late adulthood after their teenageship is over.
Then there was the other guy who was profoundly filled with the positive thoughts. And in fact it was great to some extent, particularly for short run. It can be said to be as he always looked for the positive side and failed to see the slightest drawbacks. As a result, he never prepared any backup for the events. That was such a confidance. These people achieve more success in and for short time period. Since, they only see the short span and only the positive outcome. As for my friend, he achieved many things but none of them lasted longer.
While for his personality, I found out that he attained over confidance, challenging personality, record makers, but they lacked basic instinct, empathy and common sense too. The success ratio ranges around the average, these people are also far from spiritual enlightment, but it has been observed that this type of characteristics gets diminished at their late adulthood after the teenageship is over. Still he got interesting and entertaining personality to observe and enjoy.
While for the ballanced mind, I haven't yet seen a single example of stable and ballanced psychological mind till now but I have heard about them (out of my personal experience). For all those people I have met till now have shown a kind of fluctuation in their psychology, which was particularly based on the circumstances they were facing. Its not that, I am defining them as unstable, as a matter of fact I am also under such category of fluctuating minds. Moreover, this unstability is the only thing that permits us to consider both, the negative aspect as well as positive aspect of any events. Just the difference is that some shows large fluctuation, some shows small, some shows slow fluctuation, whole some shows quick, it is just like a frequency graph, where we can consider the upward phase as positive, downward phase as negative and the straight line as neutral.
All the human beings are psychologically desined to show this frequency graph. But those people who are able to ballance their thoughts, and maintains the graph at staraight line, are able awaken their spiritual side of mind, this can be achieved by practice. And so far, there have been many claims by various people who says that they have spiritual awakening within them. Which, I can only confirm after my encounter with such kind of personality. So, as for now, I have assumed that this kind of personality is something that can be termed as hypothesis but its possibility can also not be neglected.
Human minds have the capabiltiy to do things beyond imaginantion, and so far no theorotical evidence has been presented. Which mean, there are much more to learn from our own minds.
The influences of the above said psychological characters have show visible outcome to those persons too who surrounded these kind of personalities.
As for me, when I was under the influence of the negative one, I started seeing only the drawbacks and negative sides of the events, actions and outcomes. While under the positive ones influence, I took most of the challenges in my life, which honestly I shouldn't have done. But under my own influence, from what I realised, tried to ballance these thoughts, which certainly is not so easy as it seems to say. Although, I am not a great achiever but somewhat satisfied with my effort and achievement, and consistantly trying my best to ballance them. So far, I can say that, I have gathered a personality where I can take planned risks but with a backup, I accept my failure but am able to withheld any regret, still I need to work alot to be in perfect ballance.
And I know you all can do much better than me, all it need is just to think, think about what you were thinking and what you should be thinking. It make much difference in the way we see things.
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